Pages that Heal
I had a wonderful experience this week. I made a memory book for my dear friend, Earl, who is 83 years old. After I completed it I was reminded of this phrase, “Pages that Heal”. It was the title of an article my friend, Anne, wrote for the scrapbooking magazine “Memory Makers” in the July/August 2000 issue. It captures how scrapbooking can help the process of healing when experiencing loss, grief, or abrupt change, etc.
I made this memory book for Earl since he was preparing/has suddenly moved to Minnesota to live in an assisted living community near his daughter. His recent health problems have required this decision which was made only last Thursday. Within one week’s time his family helped prepare his home to be put on the market and his things for his move. Whew!
Hearing about this decision last Thursday I started thinking about the photo that was taken of Earl and I where we usually connect… at the back of the church sanctuary before church starts. We met years ago there and continue to meet before the first service starts when he has arrived early and I arrive at 8:30-8:40 since Glen is there for choir practice. Earl is always so interested in what is going on in my life and what new project I have going or trip we are planning, etc. He loves the choir and I call him the #1 cheerleader for the choir. He has been so active helping his neighbors to doctor appointments, etc. He is so sharp you would never think he is 83. Our photo was taken on my birthday last December and I realized I had not given him one yet. I also had taken a photo of he and our other two friends that come in at 8:50. As I planned to print out the photos I felt God prompting me to take photos of other friends at church and put them in a neat, small Creative Memories album called a Minutes PicFolio. It even has a strap that goes around to the back and makes the album like an easel so the photo book can sit on a desk/dresser. I had a pack of journal and photo mats that would go great with a PicFolio I had on hand. It worked out really slick!
The idea expanded. I ended up getting photos from some friends over email that I did not connect with Sunday morning. I included photos of the church taken Sunday morning (I made this collage), his home and neighborhood (took when Glen and I went over to his home Sunday night), and some photos/postcards from different locations in Portland and Oregon.
Earl loved it!! He was so happy to receive this. He called this afternoon from MN (he flew there) to tell me again how much he enjoys it.
The beauty of all this is that it gives me a strong reminder how important it is to listen to God, and obey, when He alerts you to do something. God knows how this memory book will be helpful for Earl. I am realizing one example is that after Earl’s health deteriorated quickly in mid June he had not had the strength to get back to church before he moved. The church collage captures what it would have been like his last Sunday there. I did not comprehend this at the time. But God knew, of course.
As I prepared the memory book I could savor the great friend Earl has been/is to me. I will definitely miss Earl very much. I am so thankful I have been able to have had Earl’s friendship this amount of time. If I do not see him again in this world, I will see him again in Heaven.
Memory books. They can be “Pages that Heal”.